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再談克勝性欲
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日前《時代論壇》(一本基督教週刊)給我們一個訪問,然後以“教會如何引人入性”為題報導。除報導之外又附設一些有關網頁的小檔案,一些是由我們提供的,而其中被提的教會只有我們一間,這樣說不是以此為榮而是以此為恥,因為性問題是很廣泛許多人遇到的問題,我們差不多每週都收到這方面的網上求問求助,我相信不少教會也知道這問題,但郤太小教會回應這時需,我們感到很不配去回應這需要。但我們這網上“性與信仰園地”的存在希望能提醒主內的肢體與教會這急切的需要。
在IT的繼續發達下,性網頁更無情而可怕地侵進到人的私下空間之每一個角落,在我們華人重視群體動力的文化中,這更撤走了“唔好意思”,尷尬或“色蟲”的指罵,黃色的性感染將會比流染更嚴重地偷襲香港。而日後虛擬科學更將幻影的性經歷進佔性饑餓的靈魂,蠶食他們的精神與靈性生活。
我們可有什麼可作防線呢?我認很重要的是天上來的動阻力。一個飽嘗色性困擾的男仕試了不少方法去打擊他的色性生活。結婚不能叫他與色性決裂(林前7:1-9[壹]),他的色性胃口亦沒有因年紀大了而減少。但他每念到聖潔的人才能見主面(太5:3-12[貳];來12:10[參];詩24),他就是為了能見主而放棄他的色性活動。
我又發覺充實的信仰生活是很大的幫助,當我們生命向祝福造就人方面進發,特別對神國的屬靈戰爭有抱負時,我們的『性欲就萎縮(不是完全消失)』,因為我們的心靈不是虛空的了,『當人心靈虛空時,情欲就是最有機會跳進去的時候』,所以,我們要努力去充實生命的抱負、關注與異象,這樣,我們便不會過份為性欲所挑逗,因為當你覺得人生充實而有意義時,性欲逼人來的感受便會減少。你生命的目標有多清晰呢?當你生命的路向越清晰,你就越少空間給情欲在你心與腦中跳躍及吸引你。
空虛是情欲的仔生兄弟,一個工作狂的人在搏殺後頓感情緒虛空,若然他有三、兩知己或親蜜的家庭,他就較容易過平衡的生活,否則在空虛感侵襲時,他較容易找情欲官感的刺激去滿足他情感/情緒的需要,色情就成了他隨手可得的工具。
最後,與你以主的真理作為勉勵,新約帖撒羅尼加前書4:3-5這樣說:“上帝的旨意是要你們聖潔,遠避淫行;要你們各人曉得怎樣用聖潔尊貴的方法保守自己的身體(“身體”原文直譯作“器皿”);不要放縱邪情私欲,像那些不認識上帝的外族人一樣。”但願我們求討主喜悅的生命,以此保持人生的宏觀,而不致被情欲割據呢!
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[壹] 林前7:1 論到你們信上所提的事,我說男不近女倒好。2 但要免淫亂的事,男子當各有自己的妻子;女子也當各有自己的丈夫。3 丈夫當用合宜之分待妻子;妻子待丈夫也要如此。4 妻子沒有權柄主張自己的身子,乃在丈夫;丈夫也沒有權柄主張自己的身子,乃在妻子。5 夫妻不可彼此虧負,除非兩相情願,暫時分房,為要專心禱告方可;以後仍要同房,免得撒但趁著你們情不自禁,引誘你們。6 我說這話,原是准你們的,不是命你們的。7 我願意眾人像我一樣;只是各人領受神的恩賜,一個是這樣,一個是那樣。8 我對著沒有嫁娶的和寡婦說,若他們常像我就好。9 倘若自己禁止不住,就可以嫁娶。與其慾火攻心,倒不如嫁娶為妙。
[貳] 太5:3 虛心的人有福了!因為天國是他們的。4 哀慟的人有福了!因為他們必得安慰。5 溫柔的人有福了!因為他們必承受地土。6 飢渴慕義的人有福了!因為他們必得飽足。7 憐恤人的人有福了!因為他們必蒙憐恤。8 清心的人有福了!因為他們必得見神。9 使人和睦的人有福了!因為他們必稱為神的兒子。10 為義受逼迫的人有福了!因為天國是他們的。11 「人若因我辱罵你們,逼迫你們,捏造各樣壞話毀謗你們,你們就有福了!12 應當歡喜快樂,因為你們在天上的賞賜是大的。在你們以前的先知,人也是這樣逼迫他們」。
[參] 來12:14 你們要追求與眾人和睦,並要追求聖潔;非聖潔沒有人能見主。

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加油,別放棄,我們的星球,是變動的,生老病死,喜怒哀樂,生命 生生不息。 知足常樂。 很多國家,現在溫度,正+40度 或 負-40度, 生 活 和 生存,非常艱辛。 --- 蘇+澳+後勤+某某部,也曾 酒後駕車,BMW,車頭全毀,引擎噴飛,人沒事,上過頭條新聞,網路可以查尋到。(上新聞) 該某某部,還發生過,特別案件,因老婆,無照駕駛,老公軍人,跑去夥同鄰居,製造假車禍,真詐保險公司,雖然後來,心裡不安,主動告知,保險公司,還是被,警方發現,移送地檢署偵辦。(沒上新聞) 不知道,今年 還是去年,某艦9+3+7,有士兵,去淡水遊玩,因薪俸較低,且薪俸運用和理財不佳,到賣場超市,偷竊一盒保險套。(就算船號記錯,內容不會錯,因為是,公開場合,全體宣導,注意事項)(沒上新聞) --- 蘇+澳,南+方+澳。 社區、營區,真糟糕。 普悠瑪出軌事件、大橋斷裂事件、海軍伊清楓事件。 --- 請強化,資訊安全,駭客已經厲害到,可以入侵手機,啟動與關閉軟件,並監視手機與盜取圖片和資料,造成用戶的錯覺,刻意制造出,手機用戶,幻想 或 精神病。 利益與衝突,攏斷與掌控。 --- 刮刮樂,上面號碼,應該以, 發型款版本,進行編碼, 後面則以,發行張數量,進行編碼。 ABC-1234567(款式-張數) 不然誰知道,到底有沒有,少印 或 多印。 --- 支持公益彩卷。有錢的話,當然會幫助需要的人。 請上架,因賠錢,而下架的,樂線九宮格,謝謝。 請20:00封盤,20:05開獎。(20:30開獎,理由是,需要計算,消售金額,騙三歲小孩喔) --- 一個、謊言、炒作、洗腦...的世界。 早就已經,沒有什麼,商品供需了,所以才會造成,大家沒什麼收入。(大家在比氣長,看誰食物多) 全世界都相同問題,所以才會打,貿易戰。(太平洋 魚獲 和 工作機會) 食物,才是真的(王道),其它都是假的! --- 經濟好壞? 大家,房貸額度用光、信貸額度用光、信用卡額度用光、商品沒供需 股票炒不起來、虛擬貨幣 假的上上下下。(負債累累) 只能說,以前買到房屋 或 擁房者,已經 還清債務的人,才是幸福的。(低房價) 以前是,(慢調生活),(農業時代),(相互競爭少),(人人有田),(人人有房),現在反過來了。 --- (洗腦兼爛權 的 學長學弟制 軍隊)槽糕到不行。 --- (玩弄人、貪汙,事件永無止息),(滅證洩責,第一名),(商業值供獻零),(只會從國庫,透過預算,拿老百姓,繳的稅收,進行揮霍) [基層工人,跟老百性相同,還比較有,供獻價值] --- Come on, don't give up, our planet is changing, with birth, old age, sickness and death, joy, anger, sorrow and joy, and life is endless. Contentment is always happy. In many countries, the current temperature is positive +40 degrees or negative -40 degrees. It is very difficult to live and survive. --- Su + Australia + logistics + XX department, also once drunk driving, BMW, the front of the car was completely destroyed, the engine was flying, people were okay, the headlines can be found on the Internet. (On the news) There have also been special cases involving his wife, unlicensed driving, husband and soldier. They went to work with neighbors, made fake car accidents, and scam the insurance company. Although later, he was uneasy, he voluntarily informed the insurance company. , The police found it and transferred it to the Prefectural Procuratorate for investigation. (Not in the news) I don't know, this year or last year, a certain ship 9+3+7, there are soldiers, go to Danshui to play, because the salary is low, and the use of salary and financial management are not good, go to the supermarket and steal a box of condoms. (Even if the ship number is wrong, the content will not be wrong, because it is, public occasions, all publicity, precautions) (not on the news) --- Su + Australia, South + Fang + Australia. The community, the camp, it's really bad. Puyuma derailment incident, bridge fracture incident, navy Yiqingfeng incident. --- Please strengthen information security. Hackers are already powerful enough to invade mobile phones, start and close software, monitor mobile phones and steal pictures and data, causing users to misunderstand, deliberately creating, mobile phone users, fantasy or mental illness. Interests and conflicts, severance and control. --- Scratch music, the number above should be, Hair style version, coded, After that, the number of issued sheets is used for coding. ABC-1234567 (style-number of sheets) Otherwise, who knows, whether there is less printing or more printing. --- Support charity rolls. If you have money, you will certainly help those in need. Please put it on the shelf, because it lost money, and it was taken off, Lexian Jiugongge, thank you. Please close the plate at 20:00 and draw at 20:05. (The lottery is drawn at 20:30, the reason is that it needs to be calculated, the amount of sales, to cheat a three-year-old child) --- A world of lies, hype, brainwashing... It has been long since, there is nothing, commodity supply and demand, that's why everyone has no income. (Everyone is getting angry, see who has more food) The world has the same problem, so it will fight a trade war. (Pacific Fish Catch and Job Opportunities) Food is real (king way), everything else is fake! --- Is the economy good or bad? Everyone, the mortgage line is used up, the credit line is used up, the credit card line is used up, there is no supply and demand for goods, stocks cannot be speculated, and virtual currencies are going up and down. (Large debts) It can only be said that those who have bought or owned a house before and who have paid off their debts are happy. (Low house price) It used to be, (slow life), (agricultural age), (less competition), (everyone has a field), (everyone has a house), but now it’s the other way around. --- (Brainwashing and ruined power of the senior schoolmate system army) Too bad. --- (Playing with people, embezzlement, the incident never ends), (Extinguish evidence and venting responsibility, the first place), (Commercial value for zero), (Only from the national treasury, through the budget, the tax paid by the people and the tax will be squandered) [Grass-roots workers are the same as Lao Bai, but they are more valuable, offering value] ---
關閉系統基哨站。 這個世界,只不過是,謊言支撐起來,當一切改變時,別期待 國家 與 政府 或 任何人的承諾,因為 生死,都隨時存在,只是人類體型放大化,且記憶裡 存在著,安全思想,比較多一些生存而已。 沒有供需,一切都是假的,只是透過 各種手段 與 職業,獲取 等值的證明,紙鈔 與 錢幣。 所以生存概論,推翻政權 或 加入集團組織。 This world is just supported by lies. When everything changes, don’t expect the promise of the state, the government or anyone, because life and death exist at any time, but the size of human beings is enlarged, and there is in memory, safety thoughts, comparisons Survive more. There is no supply and demand, everything is fake, just through various means and occupations, to obtain proof of equivalent value, banknotes and coins. So an introduction to survival, overthrow the regime or join a group organization.
一個錯誤的選擇 一個錯誤的環境 造就了 一連串 錯誤的事件 軍隊 隸屬 特殊環境 , 官員有責 解決底下問題, 否則沒資格 命令 不要只會 , 升官發財 , 滅證卸責, 受傷死亡, 都不算數, (該死的軍隊)(管理極差) [該休息 休息][該工作 工作] [很困難?] (作息時間,與外面社會,稍微不同,當然正常) (部隊管理不佳, 造成他人精神壓力問題) (部隊管理不佳 ,造成他人工作負荷過重) (部隊管理不佳,造成 軍職 約聘, 捉弄 與 陷害 他人, 永久上的紀錄遺憾) (受傷沒說,完全不算數)(內傷算自己該死) (卸責厲害的軍隊) ( 上電視、上報紙、莒光園地、女兵日記 ) (形象 洗白 第一名) A wrong choice A wrong environment Created a series of wrong events The army is in a special environment, and officials have the responsibility to solve the underlying problems, otherwise they are not qualified to order Don't just get promoted and get rich, destroy evidence and shirking responsibility, Injuries and deaths don’t count, (damn army) (very poor management) [Should take a break] [This job should work] [It’s difficult?] (The work and rest time is slightly different from the outside society, of course it is normal) (Poor management of the troops, causing mental stress to others) (Poor management of the troops, resulting in excessive workloads for others) (Poor management of the troops, resulting in military appointments, teasing and framing others, permanent record regrets) (I didn't say the injury, it doesn't count at all) (Internal injury counts as one's own damn) (Short the blame for the powerful army) (On TV, Newspaper, Juguang Garden, Female Soldier's Diary) (Image whitewashing first place)
「手機」,「虛擬網路」,[最高機密]。 --- 手機運作、虛擬網路,對人體有害。 (軟件、被動 感測器、主動 偵測器) (螢幕頻率、聲音頻率、電磁波傳輸) --- 借由,基地訓號站 、情報中心,所釋出... 螢幕視覺波頻、聲音接受波頻、監視、監聽、 包含:持續定位。「鎖定目標。」(衛星 與 基站) [已100%證實,有害。] 微能量、強能量,長期對人體有害, 必需關閉,所有的通訊,電磁波 (軟件), 只留,(電話、簡訊、瀏覽器)。 太多,不必要的 「傳輸 與 定位」 了! --- 唯一防堵 方法,全力 VPN化,讓所有的一切,非於「手機」,直接傳輸。 (不懂,如此高的風顯,為何還要發明手機) (手機,是用來傳輸,訊息,視覺圖片 和 聽覺聲音),(如果 安全無法至上,那又有何意義) (基站 與 情報站,掌控所有人),(也代表掌控, 「生」「 死」。) --- 手機 亦可偽裝成,「假 飛行模式」、「假 關機模式」, 實為 「犯罪集團」(不合法) 「政府組織」(合法)。 --- "Mobile", "Virtual Network", [Top Secret]. --- The operation of mobile phones and virtual networks are harmful to the human body. (Software, passive sensors, active detectors) (Screen frequency, sound frequency, electromagnetic wave transmission) --- By the way, the base training station, the intelligence center, released... Screen visual wave frequency, sound receiving wave frequency, monitoring, monitoring, Contains: continuous positioning. "Fix the target." (Satellite and base station) [It has been 100% proven to be harmful. ] Micro energy, strong energy, long-term harmful to the human body, Must be closed, all communications, electromagnetic waves (software), Just stay, (phone, text, browser). Too many, unnecessary "transmission and positioning"! --- The only anti-blocking method is to fully VPN, so that everything is transmitted directly from the "mobile phone". (I don’t understand, why the mobile phone was invented after such a high profile) (Mobile phones are used for transmission, messages, visual pictures, and auditory sounds), (if safety is not the highest priority, what's the point) (The base station and the intelligence station control everyone), (also means control, "life" and "death.") --- Mobile phones can also be disguised as "fake flight mode", "fake shutdown mode", Actually "Criminal group" (illegal) "Government Organization" (legal). ---